Completing the Divorce Process Effectively

 Posted on January 26, 2018 in Divorce

The major life changes that accompany the end of a marriage can be overwhelming, even in the most amicable breakups. Whether you have made the mutual decision to move on from a relationship that is no longer working or have been unexpectedly served with divorce papers, you are likely not fully prepared for the upheaval that divorce will bring to your life. But while divorce can be stressful and full of complicated emotions, you can complete the process more efficiently and effectively by taking the following steps:

1. Manage your expectations - Your divorce will require some major changes to nearly every aspect of your life, from your finances, to your living situation, to your relationship with family and friends. When you are realistic about what you expect your post-divorce life to look like, you can then set goals for what you want to accomplish and work toward them throughout the divorce process.

2. Be honest - Divorce is a personal process, and it can require people to “air dirty laundry” in a public forum, which can be embarrassing. However, trying to hide information from an attorney or judge can have consequences, especially if you are trying to conceal income or assets that you do not think you should have to share with your ex-spouse. Being as open and honest as possible will ensure that fair decisions are made during your divorce.

3. See the big picture - It can be easy to get caught up in the small details of divorce, focusing on the fairness of one particular decision or the ownership of a home or other piece of property. However, it is best to take a step back and look at every aspect of your divorce settlement, ensuring that the agreement as a whole protects your best interests. Doing so will help you address your needs and prepare for your post-divorce reality.

4. Avoid unnecessary conflict - Disagreements will be inevitable during divorce, but spouses who choose to fight their battles in court or through their attorneys will end up costing themselves a great deal of money while prolonging the process. While the anger and sadness that you are likely feeling may make it difficult to do so, being willing to compromise and work together with your ex-spouse to reach a mutually beneficial resolution will help you complete your divorce much more quickly and efficiently.

5. Hire an experienced attorney - A divorce lawyer who can help you understand how the laws apply to you, work with you to meet your legal obligations, let you know what to expect, and advocate for your family’s best interests is essential for a successful divorce. With a skilled attorney on your side, you can be sure that your rights will be protected and that you will be prepared for each step of the divorce process.

Contact an Arlington Heights Divorce Attorney

Whether you are planning to end your marriage or have already separated from your spouse, the attorneys at A. Traub & Associates can help you understand the legal processes which need to be completed while working to help you reach a successful conclusion to your divorce. Contact our Schaumburg divorce lawyers at 630-426-0196 to schedule an initial consultation.

Sources:

https://www.forbes.com/sites/michaelkay/2018/01/09/alleviate-divorce-pain-avoiding-common-mistakes/#64060bdd604b

https://www.usatoday.com/story/money/personalfinance/2015/03/07/adviceiq-divorce-finances/24536371/